tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-56524213048221277352024-03-08T22:15:25.732+01:00The mind is such a secret place...Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.comBlogger86125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-52473258387771848442012-05-06T17:33:00.001+02:002012-05-06T17:33:07.345+02:00Back to bloggingI'm back, I need to write more often.Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com208tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-58075789950108096922011-12-31T13:49:00.006+01:002011-12-31T14:13:50.865+01:00few words in favour of the year 2011 :D<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiMK_CWpbMwf8PyEiHb_-huKJiPc3ObMvSeBbXxQxNbUrtJkR9AJzhSgXjhvJ-T0beEFfwjlSOlwjuPAeQPqXX1ssgNJmVVTvASTk9WOdcdQSs9dEvWPfGdPdlrN36CiMeTEDPYLQ8P7Ds/s1600/red-roses%2525201.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px 10px 10px 0px; width: 400px; height: 300px; float: left; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5692274118871930242" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiMK_CWpbMwf8PyEiHb_-huKJiPc3ObMvSeBbXxQxNbUrtJkR9AJzhSgXjhvJ-T0beEFfwjlSOlwjuPAeQPqXX1ssgNJmVVTvASTk9WOdcdQSs9dEvWPfGdPdlrN36CiMeTEDPYLQ8P7Ds/s400/red-roses%2525201.jpg" /></a>Today is the last day of the year 2011. It has been a year full of changes and challenges. I hope the new year brings much joy and happiness to everyone.<br /><br />The up side of the year 2011 :<br /><br />It was the year i was awarded with the title 'mommy'. It is the most amazing feeling anyone could feel.<br /><br />It was the year that Libya ended its long dictatorship. We lived and prayed for this end and finally our dream has become a reality.<br /><br />It was the year that my husband and i learned to live in an environment different than our own and it was the our one year wedding anniversary :):):) ( Who would have said it would be the only year celebrate just us;) from now on its us + our son :D:D)<br /><br />It was the year my husband started learning English. Now he can 'emashi omooraah'. That is another accomplishment.<br /><br />It was the year that i learned how to live with much of life's challenges.<br /><br />It was really an outstanding year despite all the wounds that will take very long time to heal.<br /><br /> I hope and pray that Allah accept Libya's Marytrs and give their families patience to endure the pain.<br /><br />For the year 2012 - inshallah- I ask Allah to guide me, my family and dear ones, and to help us do our best.<br /><br /> I ask Allah to help all those that are working hard for the sake of Libya. Inshallah etkoon sanet khair.<br /><br />I'm hungry. The food smells good.It has to smell good. It is made by my mother in law.<br /> It is lunch time. Tomorrow : a start of another week of work, please let there be some work to be done.Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-69199255667773182062011-12-24T17:12:00.003+01:002011-12-24T17:32:12.006+01:00Happy 60th anniversary Libya and other bla bla :DToday marks the 60th anniversary of Libya's independence. It is a day that has been supressed by the former reigime for so long. It just feels good to say happy independence day Libya!<br /><br />Today started with us all waking up at 11am. It is a holiday so we slept in. We woke up took our showers dressed up nicely - treating the day like a Friday;) It was nice! We had breakfsat - late breakfast then i took the time to fold the piled luandry. Laundry is never over for me! Now that i finished folding i have a basket full. Well if you count my son's small basket that means two! I'll be doing some today and some tomorrow as im planning to go out with my husband and get some grocery shopping done - inshallah!<br /><br />I have not been up to much. I'm upset at what i keep reading online. It hurts what people are saying about each other. I wish that people will put the benfit of Libya as a whole first! I dont mind crtisizim but it has to be constructive! Lately, i have not seen much of that. It is like everyone wants to get the fame to take part of histroy but by making everyone else look bad! I have made a decision not to speak of anyone because what i think could be wrong. People need to understand that having a different opinion is ok. It is not with us or against us...Lets not crtizise the person but the ideas/work....With all that im not into politics, im more for assiting the civil society, like really taking part and volunteering, i want to fit some in my schedule if i can now if not then inshallah after i finish up my masters! I miss volunteering!<br /><br />II'll be going to work tomorrow to get some papers done then probably officiallly return- inshallah. This will keep be occupied. Add to it my studies. I have to hand in an essay in March online - thank God i can hand it in from Libya online to the UK. Internet does wonders! In the main time and before i can start on my essay i have to do some revision, hope all works well. International Trade Law is really challenging but the good thing about it is it is very interesting- I like it so far! It is my last subject inshallah to get my masters. I'll be doing it along with my dissertation. I was supposed to finish it in the summer but beause of the birth of my son i applied for an extension and i was granted it- Alhamdullah! Now im following the module online but will return to the UK closer to my exam time! Wish me luck!<br /><br />SOON - Thank You KadijaTeri for the versile (sp) award, soon ill post my part :DHappymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-55017897208128839552011-12-17T22:15:00.007+01:002011-12-17T23:41:44.186+01:00Best Friends?!<div><div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2qkEtgR43fvn7Snrdf8dJAj7rmLTzLo1hs8a-qkFJRdh6QplNQrq5PnQU__TkSHNmYm527M489xe_bym4En7i-ptK311roJG2vdf00BEZULixS2Oz2JMUhW33PNkIYEilm7rtjyhBYyk/s1600/friendscartoon.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="margin: 0px 10px 10px 0px; width: 252px; height: 238px; float: left; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5687210110221890994" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2qkEtgR43fvn7Snrdf8dJAj7rmLTzLo1hs8a-qkFJRdh6QplNQrq5PnQU__TkSHNmYm527M489xe_bym4En7i-ptK311roJG2vdf00BEZULixS2Oz2JMUhW33PNkIYEilm7rtjyhBYyk/s400/friendscartoon.jpg" /></a><br />It could be a week ago that i had a status on my facebook account questions the defination of a ‘best friend’. It is been awhile that i wanted to discuss this on my blog but because i never made the time to set and write my thoughts away i decided for the time being to put it as a status. So i did. Not many have partcipated but my wonders have not stopped. It is not that i dont have a defination of it but rather i wanted to see others point of view. For me, it has not been the same. My defination kept chaning and according to it so did my best friend. The thing is it is not just the fact that my defination changed but rather the way my life has been. I was not raised in one place. I lived in the USA, Canada, UAE, UK and Libya. I did not stay in one country more than six years in a row. This resulted in different realtions. I make friends then i leave. I come back and i feel that i have missed important things in those friends lives. They share stories of a past that i wasnt part of. I have always dreamed of how it would be like if i had one best friend. A friend that has been through it all. A friend that has been there in hardships and ease throughout. Someone that knows me inside out. But no i dont have that. I have lots of friends. Up to date my best friends are those i made when i lived in Canada. I spent my teen years there. I was there until i turned 20 years old. Those friends are the best i have had. I’m still in touch with them but it is not the same though. Sometime i think maybe when years pass by they will be just an important part of my past but just that. They are still in touch but its not the same like being together i guess. My defination of best friends remain that – them. It was them that gave me the defination, the guidelines - everything!<br />This life style led to my relationships being like that off and on off and on. I keep in touch as much as possible but its not the same. Add to it the defination. Do you agree that best friends change as places change, as people change, and life changes and as you yourself change? Let me know your thoughts! </div></div></div>Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-2859857426512333122011-11-29T17:52:00.001+01:002011-11-29T18:08:22.407+01:00Happymoi is back to the blogging world:)Without writing it seems that a big part of me is missing. Facebook alone is not enough. It just feels right to return to blogging. I do not intend on turning my website to politics I have had enough on facebook. Every time I log on someone has something in those lines and although I understand how important such participation is I feel that I need a break. I spent this past year crying my eyes out and at the same time trying my best to juggle my role as a student, a wife, and a mommy to be. All this in the midst of the revolution. <br /><br />Now I'm trying to organize my life here for the few months I'll be here before my return to the UK to do my last exam and to finish working on my dissertation. I intend to start working this coming Thursday. So again I'll be juggling my life as an external student, a wife and a working mom. I hope things work out for me and everyone.<br /><br />I'll leave with this quick update and hope you are all doing well in our inshallah bright Libya.Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-45906546842983915472011-04-18T15:02:00.003+02:002011-04-18T15:19:28.647+02:00Missing my family :(:(<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZoehfyBu-VOB1j1wtvEIAQLL6dcnThE9VTbUQ8VjKByrR6xu_bvgJg5gZX1DwN8UuwIEVgntqYZbbzDs6jcAJVANdc5um4COxcZGTjXtRm0tZi8YFzPbRk6x2rvnV3zZQDklIxF4pmgQ/s1600/download+%25282%2529" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 183px; height: 196px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZoehfyBu-VOB1j1wtvEIAQLL6dcnThE9VTbUQ8VjKByrR6xu_bvgJg5gZX1DwN8UuwIEVgntqYZbbzDs6jcAJVANdc5um4COxcZGTjXtRm0tZi8YFzPbRk6x2rvnV3zZQDklIxF4pmgQ/s400/download+%25282%2529" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5596908605767405074" /></a>Before i got married, one of my biggest worries was how will i cope without my family so close by. I knew ahead of time that i will be moving to the UK because i wanted to do my masters degree. So the issue was on my mind all the time. It was the thing i thought about the most. <div><br /></div><div>Whenever i opened this topic with anyone they'd say you'll get used to it. Reality is, i haven't gotten used to it. I have been married for nine months (Alhamdullah), and got a chance to see my family twice ONLY. Once was when i came back from my honeymoon, and the second time when they visited me here. The first time i got to see all of them. The second time it was only my parents and one of my siblings. </div><div><br /></div><div>How do i feel?</div><div>My heart aches so much, and there are days that i just cannot handle the feeling. I cry sometimes. Other times i hold it inside of me. I call them, but its not the same. I continue to feel that a huge part of me is missing. It is really hard. It is as hard as i thought it would be and even harder.</div><div><br /></div><div>Before i came about to writing this entry i was trying to study in preparation for my upcoming exams. In the midst of it, i called my mom, then i text my dad. Then i continued to study, and while i was doing that i got a text from my dad. My heart just squeezed because i miss soooooooo much. I miss both of my parents so much. I miss my siblings. I wish they were here with me.</div><div><br /></div><div> I'm married now, and have started a family of my own, and soon my family of two will have an addition. It is the cycle of life i guess, but with all that fully understood by me, i cannot help but have such feelings. I just wish i could jump on the first flight and go to see them, but that is not possible now and even if i did once i leave the feeling will not disappear. </div><div><br /></div><div>I have always wondered and now even more so how do people cope with missing their parents? their siblings? I cannot seem to have gotten that. I do not think i ever will :(:(</div><div><br /></div><div>I love my family so much, and cannot help but miss them every passing second of everyday.</div><div><br /></div>Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-35578870952289735332011-04-17T19:07:00.004+02:002011-04-17T19:23:01.136+02:00Momy to be inshallah<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjEcPwqa8R73dMfJ4ySGPYKrEtCrxnd2yBHu3m8FBwF9cdR0d0ner9MwsTAxotElcF4cB80M86djFj6jp9ZjcP1ybJtI6DIZ0UJjZBOVOhGwcTStvdMYqC1SfxmpEPlWeB6WzqOAtIExJo/s1600/th_pic7.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 150px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjEcPwqa8R73dMfJ4ySGPYKrEtCrxnd2yBHu3m8FBwF9cdR0d0ner9MwsTAxotElcF4cB80M86djFj6jp9ZjcP1ybJtI6DIZ0UJjZBOVOhGwcTStvdMYqC1SfxmpEPlWeB6WzqOAtIExJo/s400/th_pic7.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5596601634718488082" /></a>I have decided that this evening i will set and spend sometime writing on my blog. As i said in my previous post that i have so much to share. Really! I know i should have written earlier but i keep postponing this task that now it is sooo long overdue, and probably not the right time. Still, i just feel the need to write away.<div><br /></div><div>My picture maybe a little ahead from what i want to share but i liked it and thought this will be it. </div><div><br /></div><div>So what is it that i want to say?<br /><br /></div><div>Happymoi is expecting her first child inshallah (yes, ME). It is a very exciting time for me and my husband- Alhamdullah. We both wished that things were better and that our happiness was complete by the well being of Libya and Libyans. Inshallah we are hopeful that things will get better before the arrival of our first child inshallah. It is only then will such a joyous occasion be complete.</div><div><br /></div><div>My due date is inshallah towards the end of July. It will be in the midst of me writing my dissertation to get my masters degree inshallah. So it will be a very very very busy time. I hope though that things work out in the end.</div><div><br /></div><div>We really really cant wait, although we know ahead of time that it will be veryyyyyy challenging especially with our schedules at the current time. Bes inshallah khair.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /><div><br /></div></div>Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-34698258175141992852011-04-17T18:42:00.005+02:002011-04-17T19:06:07.063+02:00My heart is broken for Libya<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_YfAjbEEVwZg33sTCYq_3-B4KTGMctLnfQuWA3OzgFkIliGGyvUj9aE1xctlZ-x_rm5RP7nOwf3_EXHQhnZ2m2Hidzdc4jUz3sbQjNQr3UHl9Z3EBkC_ggWNi0U9lxqzQquC4A7zMzxc/s1600/DSC07990.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 225px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_YfAjbEEVwZg33sTCYq_3-B4KTGMctLnfQuWA3OzgFkIliGGyvUj9aE1xctlZ-x_rm5RP7nOwf3_EXHQhnZ2m2Hidzdc4jUz3sbQjNQr3UHl9Z3EBkC_ggWNi0U9lxqzQquC4A7zMzxc/s400/DSC07990.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5596595015482463074" /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: none; "></span></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_YfAjbEEVwZg33sTCYq_3-B4KTGMctLnfQuWA3OzgFkIliGGyvUj9aE1xctlZ-x_rm5RP7nOwf3_EXHQhnZ2m2Hidzdc4jUz3sbQjNQr3UHl9Z3EBkC_ggWNi0U9lxqzQquC4A7zMzxc/s1600/DSC07990.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: none; " >I have not written in my blog for so long and here i'm writing again.</span></a><div><br /></div><div>I have so much to share. The starting point of my blog is my dear country Libya. Oh Libya, i think of you and my eyes are full of tears. I had a plan to visit during April since i moved to the UK. Sadly enough, the situation now is not suitable for making such a trip.</div><div><br /></div><div>I watch the news and my heart is full of pain. I feel everything inside of me is broken to pieces. So many people are dying. Libya is famous now, everyone knows of it, everyone. It is the tragic situation that made it so well known. I wish things were different. I wake up every morning thinking about Libya. I wake up every morning wishing things were different.</div><div><br /></div><div>I'm really really sad about whats going on. I try to keep a normal routine for the sake of my sanity. It is very hard, but i'm trying my best. I have my exams coming up towards the end of May, i'm no where near prepared, but i'm going to try my best to catch up, it won't be easy, but i will try. It is so hard to focus with all that is going on. I hope that Libya will shine soon. </div><div><br /></div><div>I miss it there so much. I was supposed to be there this April for a visit :(:( It was supposed to be my brother's wedding. All that is now not possible.</div><div><br /></div><div>Inshallah things will get better soon, ya rab.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-5876995980392620912010-04-30T19:59:00.002+02:002010-04-30T20:37:31.452+02:00Wedding talk....and latest.<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgET2SbcvxPuuDy96rmqtanbv6gbqwTKkLvSPSGsUuSfweoqTytnaOHQgw7TeBrg_7VClRJwHQt1NtCwuRYjVZ9wn2rtwXEM1fkQmT0DptoB0IbfNYMVGpUFlUs72qnyxmqQ5bff7udwH8/s1600/DSC06415.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5465992702616952626" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 300px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgET2SbcvxPuuDy96rmqtanbv6gbqwTKkLvSPSGsUuSfweoqTytnaOHQgw7TeBrg_7VClRJwHQt1NtCwuRYjVZ9wn2rtwXEM1fkQmT0DptoB0IbfNYMVGpUFlUs72qnyxmqQ5bff7udwH8/s400/DSC06415.JPG" border="0" /></a> It is been awhile since i last wrote here, i guess time has come for me to blog again. There is so much to share.
<br /><div> </div><div>Last time i wrote i had nothing in order for my wedding, no reservation, no shopping, no nothing, things changed now. I have two months left to be exact inshallah. Imagine Happymoi is getting married in 2 months, that is really too much to come into grasp with. haha. I don't know why but it doesn't seem to be digging in. My marriage contract might be done anytime now because i have to complete my papers for our travel to the UK inshallah. I can't say that i have started to think deeply about anything, everything is still normal at my end. I'm excited about the new stage, but must say im also apprehensive....but nothing has gotten me ...I'm just enjoying my days and trying to do my current job to the best of my ability before im due to leave it for travel/study.</div><div> </div><div>My shopping is done ( well there is no such a thing as done shopping but i have compeleted all the necessary stuff with very very few things left). My shopping has been done into two stages. Stage one was in March. My mom was in UAE and she did all the major shopping for me, she even got my wedding gown:):):):) :D:D:D, my dad wanted me to go from the first stage, but mom wasnt in favour of this idea as im not a fan of shopping and i tend to slow things and she wanted to be able to do things fast. So in the first stage of shopping i wasnt there. During April, i took sometime off work and headed to UAE to finish off the shopping and i did lots of shopping, and i gave my mom such a hard time by wanting to rest every few steps i take. I don't like shopping, that is me and there is nothing to change it. So it was very very hard for me to get the rest of my shopping done, and although at the start of the day im fresh and i enjoy the few steps i take, but sooner than the word soon itself i get sick of shopping, and just want to set in a cafe, or set in any chair i locate- most of my time was spent scanning for chairs <3.><div> </div><div>I still dont get where Libyans got the get everything from scratch, and do lots of shopping (do malls/shopping centers) disappear once one gets married? i can understand in the old days how it was, bs now you are married today, tmw you can go to the mall if you want to. So i think its silly, and the rules of how to dress up and what not, i also dont get and most likely will stay away from for as long as i can - lol knowing how hard it is, and how hard many will nag over my head :S:S:S starting from dark makeup ( which i totaly disagree with) to highheels and whatever else.....It may be interesting to read, but hard to do. I can't live with do this do that do this do that...will try my best to accomadate but cant over do it.... </div><div> </div><div>I think that shopping should be very basic, and then it could be done gradually over a period of time. Bs what can i do, it is done and that is how things are at the moment. </div><div> </div><div>Wedding invitation cards- so far i'm not planning on doing them, i'm going to opt for phone calls instead. My friends are scattered everywhere and i'd need to hire a driver to deliver them, so im saving my self the hassel of that and just going to phone my friends as time gets closer inshallah...and im not doing a picture slide show either, i gave it a thought but felt that it is not necessary......</div><div> </div><div>What else? I can't think of anything at the moment. Any thoughts? sugesstions? </div>
<br />Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-50110768261070937052010-01-30T12:01:00.002+01:002010-01-30T12:24:33.528+01:00Wedding Date Set :) Uni - Update!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOiLXSghAxrZhu7qPgsTx6HU_MarRe0TGCepXxXH_nG6u3-nuGkAYrX7OvKsiO9uiGdE_1sAPn66BwBPxjabES44T0EdJhTLWQaqGsVirPsJM743DiWTHx3upxP7_sggPTDOgg-ZvJCDI/s1600-h/311923-8-1258137261814_thumb.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5432486631465939250" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 150px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 100px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOiLXSghAxrZhu7qPgsTx6HU_MarRe0TGCepXxXH_nG6u3-nuGkAYrX7OvKsiO9uiGdE_1sAPn66BwBPxjabES44T0EdJhTLWQaqGsVirPsJM743DiWTHx3upxP7_sggPTDOgg-ZvJCDI/s400/311923-8-1258137261814_thumb.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div>It is the year 2010. I hope this year will be great for everyone. I havent wrriten on my blog for awhile now. I have been using facebook more often than any other website. Then, my usage of facebook has gotten less as well. It is all because of work. I spend all the work day infront of a computer screen, and so i get tired of it. By the time i get home, i just want to rest. </div><div>Toward the end of the year 2009, my wedding date has been set. Inshallah it will be on July 8th,2010. This means i have five more months to go until the big day. As excited as im i feel apprehensive & worried. This is only normal- i guess. I havent started on anything. Everyone seems to be rushing about. My friend whose wedding is one week after me has gotten her wedding gown, while i havent even started looking. I havent made any arrangements. My fiance reserved the hall for the Libyan Ma7der, but i havent done anything. My wedding will be held at our residnece- mostlikely. So only reservations for tables/chaires/decorations ect is necessary. I havent started thinking serioulsy about it. My mom made her guest list, i did too. She wants me to minimize my guest list, but i keep saying - mom its my wedding remember...lol. </div><div>Lets see what happens, only time will tell. So far i have been so calm as if my wedding isnt yet set.</div><div>After my wedding inshallah, ill be moving to the UK - Southampton, to do my masters at Southampton university. I did get accpeted to Glasgow, Manchester, and Northumbria but i made a decison to go to southampton because it is closer to London. It has a fine weather (compared to other areas in the UK). Most people i met want me to go to the London School of Economics. I did accept the offer from southampton. I hope i made the right choice:S:S</div>Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-72611852337273333032009-09-28T00:14:00.003+02:002009-09-28T00:49:36.111+02:00Wedding Date & PEOPLE<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiWAETJprUFgyJBVpFEvF-g0UVDCDWRe9EoJDNmjOrOveAyyZWZ3BDuT6gecDCh6sjgLbIqKbS8B_NDDJ3DhByLWV7OEJqFD7MHQADCmm1nErq1dgZA1lGlf03kAOm1eoXye2aVSMXkulc/s1600-h/4733_89108249141_622109141_1969879_2106823_n.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5386274354112864482" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 92px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 124px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiWAETJprUFgyJBVpFEvF-g0UVDCDWRe9EoJDNmjOrOveAyyZWZ3BDuT6gecDCh6sjgLbIqKbS8B_NDDJ3DhByLWV7OEJqFD7MHQADCmm1nErq1dgZA1lGlf03kAOm1eoXye2aVSMXkulc/s400/4733_89108249141_622109141_1969879_2106823_n.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div>I don't know the best way to start this entry. Bare with me my lack of creativety.</div><div>I have been thinking lots lately. I needed someone to talk to, but i finally realized that everyone has enough of their own matters to deal with so i thought what better way than just to spell my guts here. To many of you i'm not just a blogger who has a name that is vague. Instead im blogger that you have a real name attached to it. With this in mind, im going to still be frank. I'm not 100% sure if anyone will be reading this. In all cases. Here is my rant- my real feelings- everything put into words.</div><div> </div><div>I'm happily engaged. My fiance has been nothing but a wonderful person. I'm not here to brag, what matters to me is that i'm comfortable and happy to have him by my side. I have been engaged for two years and this is the start of our third year el7damdala. Now long engagements dont seem to be taken very well by the Libyan community. I personally dont see it the same way. But being part of this community im being annoyed all the time by their endless questions of when is the wedding. </div><div> </div><div>A rumor has it that my wedding is going to take place in December, another has it it will be in Janurary, and just few days ago someone told me "we heard your wedding is on Janurary" and another told me " ahu em3ash mazal leen enjo en3awlo fe 3ersek shino shahreen wala tala tanyat".its tehse twisted ways that i hate....well let me tell you something- they know that im applying to unis and that im doing my scholarship papers, i have said it before to everyone that i want to have everything ready by Jan- so they make a note of that and start putting dates for my wedding...acting as if they heard something so i would tell them if there is anything- well reality is there is NOTHING decided yet.....i dont know how to make anyone understand that my wedding date has not been decided i dont know when it will take place...i dont know if it is going to be soon or not....we havent set a date. Yes i have a scholarship. Yes i'm in the process of doing my papers.. Yes i'm hoping that my papers will be ready by Janurary. Yes my wedding will be decided according to my university studies. But so far i dont have everything completed. When will everyone understand that having a date for my wedding isnt a shameful thing for me to hide it...the mintue it is decided i will broadcast it. What part of it is a happy occasion dont people understand. Plus what good would it do if they found out when it is? I dont get annoyed when people ask me when is my wedding, but i do get annoyed when they asked it in their stupied- twisted way. They act as if they know something. I'm not like them. Imagine even my mom's travels are taken as a her mom is doing her "ebtat" shopping for her. For God's sake i havent bought a thing for my wedding. I havent even thought about anything. I just want everyone to leave me alone. They are stressing me out. I have enough to think about already. I don't need this right now.</div><div> </div><div>They either nag about how long will i be engaged for before i get married...or make sure they annoy me by when is my wedding...and the same ppl are doing the same thing to my fiance, asking him continiously as if they are on a mission to get us. My new answer now is " you never know it could be anytime from this week to any day that follows". What can i do? They think im lie- ing to them. So i might as well add to their dizzness. Imagine they come to my sister and say your sister wrote on facebook that her wedding is on so and so.....imagine?!! hellooooooooooo if im planning on not sharing the date would i write on facebook when it is????im not stupied...ahhhh</div><div> </div><div>The mintue my wedding date is set, be sure it will be my status on facebook and i will have an entry here as well. For now pray that everything works for me. Pray that people would let me live my life and stop acting in such stupied ways. I have had enough!</div>Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-74299476546179983962009-08-27T22:57:00.004+02:002009-08-27T23:24:54.511+02:00Jacket Potato..Ramadan..Sleeping..Documents...bla bla<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJJsD8qXR_m81Wvmzfim8HnqacY9u5Io2kJGZCnYld4sCgi4wc-DVQhM936qPs-ePBQDaU0j2b-sJMRVmF0cNoC1ZieJ-Prg2qITqwArS6CWR769xTx1esUD1qx1i2rHsNFqXGxk31ido/s1600-h/s637350283_5716716_3976.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5374751709144658578" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 130px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 130px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJJsD8qXR_m81Wvmzfim8HnqacY9u5Io2kJGZCnYld4sCgi4wc-DVQhM936qPs-ePBQDaU0j2b-sJMRVmF0cNoC1ZieJ-Prg2qITqwArS6CWR769xTx1esUD1qx1i2rHsNFqXGxk31ido/s400/s637350283_5716716_3976.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div>Ramadan Kareem everyone.</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>I have been wanting to update my blog for such a long time, but havent taken any serious steps. Today, however, i decided to do what i havent done for quiet sometime.</div><br /><p>I have been working as a trainee at this company. It has been going well. On July i went to the UK for a training course at Trowers & Halmin. It was a good experience. Everytime i go to the UK i seem to enjoy it, even though, the times i end up there its usually for training/intersnip and not for lesiure. The training course went very well, and i learnt lots about NDAs, MOUs,Oil &Gas, Aircraft laws,Funds, Islamic Finance,real estate..it was intensive but worth it. I always have my fun ways to turn my work/training trips into a fun filled adventure. I enjoyed the training course, and got to go on a walking tour around london, got on the London Eye this time;) and went to too many lebanese restaurants. I love lebanese food. My only regert however, is that this time around i havent gotten a chance to go to the spaghetti house! i loved selver ridge icecream- yummmyyyyyyyyyyy. I remember last time i went to the UK during 2007, my food experience was horribly horrible for the most part...until i learned where to go. This time i made sure my food experience was as it should be. I had the courage to try for the first time British Jacket Potato with butter, and cheese toppings. It was yummy beyond belief. I'm carving it lately bas no such a thing exists in my beloved land.</p><p>My Ramadan schedule have been like this: work then go back home & sleep. That basically sums it up. I went once to my grandma from my mom's side to break my fast. But that was it. The sleeping habibt of mine is turing into an issue. I mean i just fall asleep. I sleep until magrib or few mintues before it or abit after. I don't know i wasnt like that on previous Ramadans. I mean yes i slept alittle more than my usual hours but not to the point of sleeping until the actual adan. But then its my first Ramadan working. Since i returned to Libya, my Ramadans were always off. My law school never started until Ramadan was over and so i was always home during the month. Not sure if my sleep has to do with this change.</p><p>In terms of my scholarship, i have finally decided to apply to the university of glasgow. I gathered all my documents- FINALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLY and i started an online application, but just need to upload the documents and submit it. Please everyone make duaa that things work out. It is about time. Gathering my documents was sooooo toughhhhhhhh so im pleased that finally i have them. I scanned them all and they lay happily on my desktop:)</p>Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-74395372392347764332009-06-18T22:55:00.002+02:002009-06-18T23:18:41.637+02:00Happymoi's latest.<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2gXNiTSYFIXvlWob0x05yDeijvqrgX_S_gl85y6dSRoMHCJBkITW07Uopex6AO8BAcSosDEUWULv4eejJPmSBMN-aijqBCI2pj4V1hqeeKB6M_yhMDOH4HKIPBdnefY-e3W7AKYACwzQ/s1600-h/images.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5348774438814702706" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 158px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 123px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2gXNiTSYFIXvlWob0x05yDeijvqrgX_S_gl85y6dSRoMHCJBkITW07Uopex6AO8BAcSosDEUWULv4eejJPmSBMN-aijqBCI2pj4V1hqeeKB6M_yhMDOH4HKIPBdnefY-e3W7AKYACwzQ/s400/images.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div>El7amdala. Everything is going well for me so far. Wednesday was absoultly wonderful. </div><div> </div><div>My♥ ♥ grandma ♥ ♥ has been out of the hospital for 3 days now. I have been there on Tuesday, and Wednesday.. I'm glad my grandmother is doing well. I didnt go today. I would love to see my grandma everyday but i just can't handle the amount of people coming in and out, in and out. I don't enjoy being around such environment for so long. I get sick of the routine of non stop visitors. I'm a very sociable person, but i like balance in everything. 'Don't over do something' -> that is me.</div><div> </div><div>I'm still working on my papers, there is alot of progress el7amdala. So i do hope that my paper work gets done soon. For now i'll keep working on them (more like running after everyone). Pray that my papers get done soon, or at least most of them. </div><div> </div><div>I applied for traning at LIA in the legal department, i went and saw everyone, and now im waiting for them to let me know when they'd like me to come. I'm still waiting though. At the same time, i have handed in my file for the TA. I just have to do the blood test (normal routine when getting a job) and the testomoney (that i dont work anywhere else kind of paper) . So in addition to my scholarship related papers and i have these two papers to deal with. But they arent hard to get. <thank>. </div><div> </div><div>If all worked well, it will be 5-6 months before i leave to the US for my masters. I just want to get some work experience before i travel, and im ok with working even if not paid.My focus now is on building my skills- not on getting paid. Your duaa is much needed. </div><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div>Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-44604605041958764232009-06-11T18:59:00.002+02:002009-06-11T19:10:52.572+02:00Just school related bllllllaaaaaaaaahs;)<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjskSGQlbyrsillswocNZpqRywf5p_KFrTcBCIgdeUPQHfFjWsm_xypduPobWCciwOkVMQ2RA2r5gyvzeeEkpSgHGtVoM16u_3Z0kr7g4gdGunTMVxcTNybwiAjGL3cf9ycXKHrs9IOVJc/s1600-h/flower+red+n+card.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5346115877413037186" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 116px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 106px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjskSGQlbyrsillswocNZpqRywf5p_KFrTcBCIgdeUPQHfFjWsm_xypduPobWCciwOkVMQ2RA2r5gyvzeeEkpSgHGtVoM16u_3Z0kr7g4gdGunTMVxcTNybwiAjGL3cf9ycXKHrs9IOVJc/s400/flower+red+n+card.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div></div><br /><p>Yesterday, i was shown on TV. I was giving the speech, but it was muted, and the channel had a person speaking about the event while showing my pictures. I didnt see it though, memebers of my extended family did. I was told it would be at 11pm, and when i didnt find it exactly on the time mentioned i just left the room to run few errands. So after i left, my uncles,cousins and dad told me that i was on TV. My lack of patience ahhhh!! lol...well i just didnt feel like waiting, and i was like oh well i was there. </p><p>Life has been going alright lately. I'm very happy that i have dropped out of the masters program here. It was hectic for me. I wasnt comfortable with some of the professors, and it was so hard getting resources as our university lacks good libararies. My parents were telling me that i would put my self in a tough position as i wont find material to do my research etc...but being hard minded if i may say, i had to enrol. I found out that they were right. I made the descion of dropping out after the scholarship became official. So i hope things do work out. The plan is to go in Jan2010 if i got accepted. So inshallah khair. I don't know what is in store for me. I sure pray that i will get to study abroad. I really want to get my masters done. I do love school. I love learning in general. I know it is not always easy, and sometimes i do wish i was free to do other things, but at the end, school means alot to me. So yes i want to do my masters. Yes i want if life allows me to do my Phd too. Pray for me everyone. I guess i have lots set up for myself and the happiest moment for me would be when i achieve those goals. Stay tunned;)</p><p> </p>Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-25377255275870787982009-06-10T16:15:00.004+02:002009-06-10T16:47:16.272+02:00I'll be on TV tonight =)<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhZ45ikI1NFan5LuyKMSbiKM0yo5wWhR7N1tsgrYb0P5RRl_rvivudigDsIhkvayeogMjt1tXQJSiyNLXizHoFao56yR3etrin6XUML3PShNgBqzWkPGGr88eOrKExt5EkvlGI4yAhI3qQ/s1600-h/s637350283_5716716_3976.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5345710221785482434" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 130px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 130px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhZ45ikI1NFan5LuyKMSbiKM0yo5wWhR7N1tsgrYb0P5RRl_rvivudigDsIhkvayeogMjt1tXQJSiyNLXizHoFao56yR3etrin6XUML3PShNgBqzWkPGGr88eOrKExt5EkvlGI4yAhI3qQ/s400/s637350283_5716716_3976.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div>Today was my graduation ceremoney. A year ago was my actual graduation date. I'm a grad of 2008. Our law school didnt have a graduation ceremoney for so long. Our graduation marks the 20th year that our law school has been in session. So yay for us!!! =D =D</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>If you want to know who happymoi is, check the lebeya channel الليبية at 11pm. =) =) If my speech was shown, let me know what you think...it was done in a hurry because i was notified the evening before. Enjoy!</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>For the record, my dad, my uncle S, my bro, my cousin T, my fiance, and my sister were present at the ceremoney. Mom couldnt make it because she is with my grandmother at the hospital. She did phone though.</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>Good step, law school! I wished it was done the same year, but i think it is a step in the right direction.</div>Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-40025943574727372262009-06-09T19:22:00.002+02:002009-06-09T19:28:25.579+02:00Last mintue notification- IM GIVING A SPEECH ON THE CEREMONEY!!!!A year after my actual graduation, my university is holding a graduation ceremoney. Few days ago i was notified of its date, and few mintues ago i was notified that i would be giving a speech!!! Well because i will be representing my fellow law schoolers. So last mintue!!! My friend suggested a word for me, and i'm looking at it. If it was in English i would have easily written it. It comes to me so naturally. But in Arabic, it requires so much thinking. The Arabic language is so beautiful. There are lots of choices, lots of unique words, lots of expressions, and sooooooooo much grammar:S:S:S:S<br /><br />What am i to doooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo?!!!!! Whats the best way to start a speech...is it advised that i take the not sooo traditional root? OMG what am i going to do. I dont want to look so foolish.....arghhhhhhhh! Stay toned to see me on TV :S:S<br /><br />I'm not readyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-79538970941536071032009-06-08T23:58:00.004+02:002009-06-09T01:06:08.500+02:00One mind, Two mindes- your thoughts?!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqwjXY3mFIqrtpB_nxBfXyB1S558e1hKMao1DSHVluSnl9MSWg7MJ-XZiPMyOWf-FS1Gl43a6ShPZpdbudP3QVhjRU-1tR2voDaIQNaBlrdDvjQYh19wHPiL6MfXN8V5j4cxabpwvNAdI/s1600-h/flower2.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5345079879659106274" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 150px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 113px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqwjXY3mFIqrtpB_nxBfXyB1S558e1hKMao1DSHVluSnl9MSWg7MJ-XZiPMyOWf-FS1Gl43a6ShPZpdbudP3QVhjRU-1tR2voDaIQNaBlrdDvjQYh19wHPiL6MfXN8V5j4cxabpwvNAdI/s400/flower2.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div></div><br /><p>I have always done things the way i wanted them. My parents are very open minded. I know where the red lines lay, and so i have had the freedom to make choices, and decisions about everything. My parents would put up the advice, and its in my hand to make the final choice. They have done the right thing, and although many times i have wished that someone else would make the decision for me, but i have grown up with knoweldge of how tough it is to make a decision, and how to make a decision regardless of how tough it may be. </p><p>The final decision was always mine, and mine alone. Now i'm not alone anymore. Anything that comes up has to discussed and decided with two minds. Mine, and that of my fiance. It is so harrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrd. It takes so much effort to get to the point of making a decision. So was it right that i have had this freedom to make decisions from the time i was old enough? or was it a good step, meaning you start by knowing how hard it is to make a decision, then after getting used to that you learn how two can come up with a decision with both interests in mind? I have to be convinced to agree, i cant just agree. My brain wont process. So if you dont convince me, dont even bother thinking i would take your stand. That is making it so hard for me. Because sometimes i just never get convinced, and the decsion process becomes tougher than it already is.</p><p>Any thoughts? </p><p>How much are you willing to let go for the sake of those you love? where should you draw the line? How can you not loose your asprirations, your dreams,your goals and at the same time not loose your love? Do you ever have to make the choice between your love, and your goals? What if both are of the same importance?</p><p>Waiting for your comments.</p>Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-71820500967880992092009-06-07T17:35:00.003+02:002009-06-07T17:48:25.791+02:00My beloved grandma undergoing a surgery right now:S:SI'm writing this and my grandma is in the hopsital. She is undergoing a surgery at this moment. Many of you would think how senseless of me to set and right at this point in time. Well the answer is, i feel so scared. It was all a sudden thing. I was at my university doing my papers all of this morning. Then, i got back home to find my mom in tears. Dad wasnt back from his trip at the time of my arrival. My legs were shivering at the sight of my mom. The Libyan way is the whole truth of the situation is never told. So everytime something happens, i dont trust what i hear. I always feel that things are bigger than they sound. My mom was told that my grandmother will undergo surgery tomorrow. My sister and i told mom that we have a feeling it is today and that her bro didnt tell her just so she wont get worried. Right we were. It is today. It is right now as im typying this letter. Dad arrived, and we were all in tears when we first saw him, so we havent dealt right with the situation, i had to hold a grip and say that everything is alright, and that my grandma is fine. It is just that her leg hurted her abit and so shes undergoing surgery for it. We should have been stronger. It is not right the way we welcomed dad, but im sure he understands. Now dad and my bro went to the hopsital. They didnt take me with them. I want to go too. I don't feel ok at the moment. As i said i feel soooooooo scared. No one would understand. I just want to go see her. My fiance is there too. I just messgaged him and asked him to contact me right away when my grandma is out of the surgery room. If anyone reads this please please please pray for her. Pray that everything goes smoothly and that she will be fine.Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-16201285395056187982009-06-06T13:31:00.002+02:002009-06-06T13:56:36.844+02:00Summer time, swimming time (muscle cramps:S:S)<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiNzkw59xqPGPMVgIwL91_NoGpMClZumTjc3wZnaXtwII7k8aWQjCXzFwtQ5UqaT0nVW5ESVB-1GHxowJQbC9XoW2Fv241T0gUpc0YEpKVNvTsB15CXDK43vICecMxaDf-B7j4OIsvqWVw/s1600-h/800px-Backyardpool.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5344176052460621682" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 300px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiNzkw59xqPGPMVgIwL91_NoGpMClZumTjc3wZnaXtwII7k8aWQjCXzFwtQ5UqaT0nVW5ESVB-1GHxowJQbC9XoW2Fv241T0gUpc0YEpKVNvTsB15CXDK43vICecMxaDf-B7j4OIsvqWVw/s400/800px-Backyardpool.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div>The weather is getting warmer and warmer each day. This could only mean one thing; the time has come to jump in the pool. We have a swimming pool at our farm, and for the past two weeks we have been going for a swim on Fridays. I love to swim. I especially love to swim when the sun is still shinning. My cousins tend to avoid swimming during duhr time just out of fear they would get dark. They say 'we have weddings coming up, we should swim around 5pm or so' . The things is, i dont really care. Even if i was the bride i wouldnt care. For me, the most important thing is that i have a good time. So this past friday, it was only me and my little cousins in the pool. The rest were under a shade watching from distance. So i had a good time. I have one issue, i get muscle cramps while swimming all the time. It happend to me in Canada, and it is happening to me here! In Canada, i wasnt so scared of it because there was always a life gurad and whenever it occurs i have been rescued out and given oxygen and all that is necessary. Here though, we dont have a life gurad, it is not a public pool so yeah. This Friday i didnt get any muscle cramps because what i did was swim for one round, rest for few mintues, then do another round. Then rest. Then walk around the water, then swim for another round.I'm not a perfect swimer, but i'm ok. I dont know all the ways. Unlike my mom, she is a perfect swimer. She just lots abit of her speed due to her lack of practice. Anyways, after 20 mintues or so of being at the pool i got out of the pool because i thought i better get out before my muscles cramp. They did the Friday before this (after 20 mintues of swim time to be exact). It was me and my two cousins swimming, i was teaching my cousin this easy way of swimming but after reapting the way for few times my muscles cramped. The good news was, that both of my cousins were around me, and we werent in the deep end. So one held my foot and stablized it so it wont move, and the other pulled me from my hand until i got to build in seats at the babies end. I sat crying the pain out. But at least i was safe. So did any of you ever experiences muscle cramps? for me, it happens all the time, and it is painfullllllllllllllll. It is very painful. I would drawn so easily even at the shallow water. My height is 1.70 i could stand rasing my toes a little at the end of the pool and be able to breath easily (that works if i got tired from swimming) but if my muscle cramps occurs i would drawn period. What should i do? anyone knows?</div>Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-74585677827166788792009-06-02T21:55:00.003+02:002009-06-02T22:30:30.385+02:00It is been 4 months!!!!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj21rJx63qDqQWLeSBO8Txoc1vMXgD9vBi7ITwQzBN4ywy05_8KKBEZMMYm3U3nVe9keciThNLNjUF4kH_7EndJUyHCyk8VMgoewAES0YB_5lImCVDSJowlKAHEb8RwX7rdenei0MRWSCE/s1600-h/249-the-spirit-of-love.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5342821829359073938" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 330px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 400px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj21rJx63qDqQWLeSBO8Txoc1vMXgD9vBi7ITwQzBN4ywy05_8KKBEZMMYm3U3nVe9keciThNLNjUF4kH_7EndJUyHCyk8VMgoewAES0YB_5lImCVDSJowlKAHEb8RwX7rdenei0MRWSCE/s400/249-the-spirit-of-love.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div></div><br /><p>I have been away for four months. I have finally decided to blog again.</p><p>There are lots of things i want to say. I have been up to lots. But everything revloves around the same stuff i used to write about.</p><p>I have my law school degree. I'm in the process of being appointed at my university as a TA (Tutor Assitant) or mo3eda as is called in the Arabic language.</p><p>Since my graduation, i havent worked. The reason was i enrolled in a masters program here, but now i dropped out of the program because i have a scholarship to study abroad and it is finally being processed- el7amdala.</p><p>I had two scholarships, but finally decided to go with the Higher Education Commitee in Libya's Scholarship. It is better for me. As i plan to become a professor at my university inshallah. This works for me. I can't just do company work for the rest of my life. Company work is time consuming, and wont work for me in the long run. For me the long run is what matters. I want something i could really do. I know im very ambtious, and nothing seems enough but i dont want to make my life impossible. I want to fullfil my ambtions and at the same time not scarfice the happiness of those i love. I could choose to be workholic, i have lots of offers. But i opt for a balanced life style. It matters in the future when my fiance and i get married inshallah. </p><p>Back to what i was saying, the scholarship requires endless paper work. I have started, but im yet to reach the ending point. When i was just relived that im done getting the singatures from my professors for the refernce letters i need for the university i plan to attend, the dean tells me i cant have them in an offcial univeristy paper and that i'd have to ask my professors to switich them to white paper. It is only then that he would stamp them for me! So now i have to run like a headless chicken and try to locate all my professors again. That is a tough job, no one abroad would understand its toughness!!! Then my transcripts and my rank paper. OH boy..i went to get them, and after 3 months of them taking their time to retype them ,stamp them, sign them, i found that they are messed up. My grades were wrong, the typer was just no precise, and mixed up everything. I tried to keep myself calm when in reality i wanted to scream and cry. It is been so long, and the end result is this????? so i went to this nice employee and asked her to get my orginal grades out from the files stacks, and she did that and was shockecd how wrong it was. So now im waiting for my transcripts wa inshallah this time around their wont be any errors. My rank paper had a mistake in the percentage as well. So i'm back to point zero with my papers. It really makes me want to cry!!! If only the admission offices at the universities abroad understand how it is such a hassel to get anything here!!! I mean they keep asking for 2-3 transcripts 2-3 references, i dont blame them. But really we work our heads off just to take those papers. So the wait continues!!</p><p>Then came the decision of the country. First it was the UK. It suits me well. Its programs suits me well. But the higher education commitee decided to log the UK off. They made certain things tougher over there and so for now the UK is not on the list of countries in the scholarship list. So then, i decided on the USA. My homeland! So i have to apply there inshallah. I will apply to the UK as well and see what happens. Decisions in Libya are never final so the UK could open up. For now i have located a university that im interested in. I will do the academic English first, then enrol in the LLM program. That way i would have time to adjust to the routine of my former lifestyle and at the same time revise and get ready for the LLM. </p><p>If things worked out, and i got accepted. My fiance and i will tie the knot:D:D:D:D. So everyone pray for me that everything works out. Any advise, feel free to shout it out.</p><p>I have lots more to talk about, but for now i just wanted to get that out of my system. Hope you are all doing great.</p><p>I do miss you all tons.</p><p>xoxo</p>Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-64572570023319281612009-01-15T18:08:00.006+01:002009-01-16T18:26:50.679+01:00Gaza, i feel sorrow for what the innocent civilians are going through:(:(It is 2009. It is been 2 weeks into this new year.<br /><br />I have not really done much. I have watched more news than i can handle. I feel sorry for all the innocent civilians in Gaza. Feeling sorry isnt enough i know,what are the right words to say? None. Period. I cant say i know what they are going through beacuse what they are going through is more than the worest situation i have been put on. So who am i to say words like i understand?!!! I'm not in a position to say such words. I just dont qualify.<br /><br />I pray for them and they are in my thoughts all the time. When it comes to food ;everytime i eat something i feel so guilty because they are straving while im sitting at the comfort of my home safe, & sound. My heart is torn everytime i think about the suffering of the innocent civilians in Gaza . I feel guilty for carrying a normal routine, but Allah -God- knows too well how i feel deep inside. I do not feel happy at all. I cannot stop watching the news, hoping that maybe maybe there will be some breaking news about thing becoming better over there.<br /><br />I read a diary for a Gazan named Mohammed Ali, describing the situation over there, and how horrific what they are going through, how everynight when he heads to sleep he says to his wife, good night my lover, see you in heavan....his words echo on my mind, and has been echoing all day today. I wish for the innocent civilians of Gaza to have peace, to have a normal life like everyone else in this planet. I say to Mohammed Ali, that even though we are living worlds apart but our hearts are torn about the situation in Gaza. Yes you, your family, and every Gazan deserve to have a normal-safe-secure life like everyone else. Keep your hope alife and i hope you earn the British council's scholarship - Keep Mohammed Ali's hope alife British Council, give him a chance to have a peace of mind, and the walk around the park he longed for.<br /><br />Every human has the right to live in saftey and security. I shall blog again about me, but not right now, as this entry is devoted to the innocent civilians in Gaza.Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-3323237749787356882008-09-19T22:41:00.003+02:002008-09-19T23:05:20.878+02:00Sympathy,my parents,road exam,a mini mall in TripoliMy deepest Sympathy<br />-To my dear blogger Ibee, im very sorry for your loss. I must say, that your mother seems like a wonderful person. I'm glad your relationship with her is great. I ask you to be pateint through this tough time. Take good care of yourself and be there for your family. I know im late but i havent had a chance to browse around the blogs, and i just did so today. So please accept my deepest sympaties. Hugs.-<br />-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------<br />Missing my parents<br />Ramadan is close to being over...<br />Things have been going alright at my end...though i miss my parents sooooo badly. So far no chance of them coming the first two days of Eid and that is making me soooooo upset. I cant stand spending Eid without my parents. I remember last time when dad was away no one bothered to wake me up in the morning and i missed all the morning fun:(:( plus when my parents arent around i cant feel the joy of Eid. I hope that somehow a mircal happens and that they get two seats and come...i really really miss them and everytime i remember they wont be here for Eid i feel sooooo saddddd.<br />--------------------------------<br />Passing the Drivers Road Test<br />I did my drivers exam and passed on the 6th of September. Now i have to take my papers to get my license, and im waiting for my friend to announce the day shes going to take her papers so we could go together. I'm glad this step is done and over with-the exam step. My plan now is to go on training again to get used to roads and the car. That i'll start doing as soon as i get my license in my hand.<br />-------------------------------<br />Eid Shopping<br />I really hate shopping. I have only gone out shopping 3 times ( twice with my cousins, and once with my aunt) and i was only able to get a blouse. The thing is i have decided that i wont be going to shop again anytime soon. My mom will be sending me an outfit from abroad for the first day of Eid. The second day of Eid i got a nice blouse from my shopping trips. The rest of my shopping my sister will do for me. I really cant stand going out and shopping. I dont like the crowd, and i found nothing worth going out for. Oh i must mention that a mini-mall opened in Libya. Called Al Mahari Mall. And it even has paryer areas for ladies/men. It has H&M, United Colours, nafnaf, Sanayra, Al Khaye7', Traeesh for shoes & bags...umm what else?!!Grocries and Sweets, Al shajara food court, Chicken Cottage food court, umm i know i havent mentioned everything but it is a good step toward improving the shopping experience. So lets see what becomes of this mall.<br /><br />Thats about the latest. Talk to you all laters.Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-41245188583473429292008-09-04T15:27:00.005+02:002008-09-04T15:45:35.680+02:00Ramadan Mubarak, France, Fadan, and my CPU<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhe5jvZRv1p2sd0DLccCKacw0oslWrA58M2Cs6N1z9GabjbT-C9iEd2guuVg4bYKoO1PWWSRJEphVM7XcWJwjdYh-8uCO4qPgBU0glJsesDY7cwVUBZeLO7_coNxU-QL02FNlyndhyphenhyphenjT_4/s1600-h/images.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5242160914259147090" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhe5jvZRv1p2sd0DLccCKacw0oslWrA58M2Cs6N1z9GabjbT-C9iEd2guuVg4bYKoO1PWWSRJEphVM7XcWJwjdYh-8uCO4qPgBU0glJsesDY7cwVUBZeLO7_coNxU-QL02FNlyndhyphenhyphenjT_4/s400/images.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div>Ramadan Kareem Everyone></div><br /><div></div><br /><div>Lots has been going on since my last post></div><br /><div></div><br /><div>I got to go to France for a simi family vacation. I said simi cuz it was only my brother, me and my two youngest siblings> It was a very very nice vacation. I got to go to Disneyland, Le Leouvre Muesum, Shanza-lazi street (sp?), passed by the Effiel Tower, and i ended my Trip at Nice. A city most famous for its awesome weather. I found it lots different than Paris. Paris has such an unexpected weather, so in one day four seasons occur. Overall i had such an awesome time. I'm glad that after i lost hope of a vacation that one knocked at my door:D</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>More news: I had my fadan upon my return from France. For those who dont know what a fadan is, it is an all men's dinner where the engagment announcment is made. Yes its official Happymoi is engaged to an awesome guy :D:D The thing is i have been engaged " word" kind of thing since May,2007. But didnt want to post it up until the fadan and now that it has taken place i decided its about time that i make a mention of such an important-joyous- event></div><br /><div></div><br /><div>I still have to do my drivers licnese. The thing is i was supposed to do it the week i left for France. And i chose France over the test as i knew i can always do it> plus i was so in need of that time off> as for my school papers the plan is to start here until i get myself organized and could go abroad - lets hope things work out inshallah></div><br /><div></div><br /><div>I'm sorry for my absence, but it has been busy and on top of all that my CPU has gotten messed up so i cant use our PC at home and for some reason my sis's laptop wont connect to the net. Well that is about it for now.</div><br /><div>Hope all is well at your end.</div><br /><div>Thank you all for your Ramadan wishes> same back to you.</div><br /><div>More later.</div>Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-53573640468474823972008-08-18T15:32:00.003+02:002008-08-18T15:48:40.875+02:00I need a good university abroad- help meomg omg omg<br /><br />i'm soooooooo angry at how slow everything is, it takes a century to figure out what papers you need, then 2-3 centuries to figure out how to get them, then a life time to get them, i have been running after my papers ever since i recieved my results....and life is been soooooooooooooo busy, yet so little has been accomplised, to the point that my vacation was canceled:(:( no vacation for me this summer or so it seems:(:(<br /><br />i completed all the papers i need to register at the Lawyers undertraning office-Alhamdullah,<br />compeleted my papers to apply for masters degree,<br />i still have to do my TA papers,<br />my drivers license-road test soon inshallah,<br />i have to go to my cousin's house, she had her first baby (a boy) after about 8 years of waiting, mashallah,<br />i also have to go to my uncle's house,cuz his wife has a surgery,<br />i have to go to uni to get another official copy of my law degree,<br />i have to start searching for good law schools abroad to do an LL.M any ideas??please please help me><br />my plan is: im going to start doing my masters here, while working -under traning at a law office, then if all my papers were ready and circumstances were right im gona stop everything here and go do my masters abroad, if not, then will continue here> so its just to be on the save side that im gonna start here> I need good uni names preferably in the US but wouldnt mind just let me know if any of you know anything><br />the weather is sooooooooo hot in here, it makes me doesnt wanna leave the house, how will i ever surive Ramadan if i had to leave the house, in the mention of Ramadan-- wish you all have a happpppppppppppy Ramadan.<br />Sorry im writing all over the placeeeeeeeee, but just wanted to spell it out! been thinking tooooooooo much....sigh! ed3uli.Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5652421304822127735.post-39084374616818568032008-07-22T14:11:00.002+02:002008-07-22T14:18:36.399+02:00Done Law School- its time for the word: MABROOKI want to share with all of you my joy and my family's joy.<br /><br />I'm done law schoollllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll:) It is such a happy time for me, and for my family.<br /><br />My brother is now away (UK) for his grad ceremenoy as well. SO for the family its times TWO:D:D<br /><br />I'm so thrilled and over joyed>>>><br /><br />My only wish is that my friends who didnt pass will pass during the door-tani so we could celebrate together. Right now, i can only hold family zardaz, as my party wont be complete unless my friends were happy along with me. Pray for them.Happymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14389138378430269521noreply@blogger.com9